Is it to "clearly present the gospel" or is it to build relationships with people with the intention of speaking Jesus - very personally - into their life?
^I think both sides are important as equal...sometimes it's better to tell it at once...but the BEST way (how I C it)...is to show and talk about Christ in a life style...not just pushing gospel down in ppl throat...but showing friendship...then talking about Jesus now and then (not showing faith just thru acts...but also thru words)...not just throwing it up...straight at U face...
I wouldn't B intrested about Christ who is not a choice but,just pushing down on U throat...choice:"believe in Christ or believe in Christ"...no,if you don't believe I would still B a friend...and faith based living Christian...

And i think a lot of the difference is in people's hearts and attitudes.
^I've noticed that...some old PPL awould B down with DJ lead worship...and Christian techno music...and even some young ppl are against it...it depends person...

focussed on Jesus and glorifying only Him, then it becomes a Christian event
^WORD!
So now the next question is how do we get everyone's heart and attitude focussed on God?
^THAT'S
REALLY GOOD QUESTION...

Answer is simple (atleast to me)...it depends person again...and them focus...if U R Christ centered...it just happens...but if U R not Christ centered...then I C Christ has to do just job in U...nobody can make U Christ centered...Xcept Holy Spirit...

...but still...it would B cool to C everybody at Christian parties...'coz if Holy Ghost is there...he would show Christ...so ppl could find Christ thru parties...and find relationship to Him...

...so EVERY CHRISTIAN PARTY WHICH IS CHRIST CENTERED IS GOOD!
But for this change to really happen we need by God's grace for His Holy Spirit to move within the life of the non-Christian. Thats where prayer comes into it... cover an event in prayer (before, during and after) and hearts and attitudes could change.
^
TOTALLY...
But for this change to really happen we need by God's grace for His Holy Spirit to move within the life of the non-Christian. Thats where prayer comes into it... cover an event in prayer (before, during and after) and hearts and attitudes could change.
^but that is JUST THE BEST THING...if it is sodoma and gomoraISH...then we should B there and try to save ppl...